Is your child developing weird behavioural problems.A few tell tale signs can suggest that your child is being bullied. Here are a few to question and deal with them previous to it becomes a very terrible situation to handle.Talking to your child evenly and building up strong family relationships can mean a child can tell you they are being bullied and you can intervene previous to its too late. Not all children tell their parents though. you can later explore further just in case a further problem is the produce of a child’s scarce behaviour.
1.If your child has a silent and shy personality bullying can evenly go a miss. A child who does not feel they can approach a parent will evenly not tell you there is a problem, or if they keep coming in from playing outside telling you “mum they keep hitting me” you can sometimes be so busy and sick of them coming in every 10 minutes or so that you “say oh go on and play”, sometimes you want them to fend for them selves and stick up for themselves but bullies evenly pray on children who don’t fight back. so when bulling has become a very serious issue your child will feel they are unable to approach you with any serious problem at all.A child can become withdrawn and not want to play outside after school with their acquaintances.
2.Stealing a child may result in stealing/shop lifting and hiding things from you and then giving them away to try make new acquaintances, it evenly has the bullies then stealing from their lunch boxes, sack cash etc because they are known as a soft touch, and the child who is bullied will feel they will leave me alone if i give into them. which is evenly not the case.The other children could still not want to make acquaintances with your child and may even produce more children to bully your child.. look out for hidden toys, pens, chocolate bars, cash hidden under the pillow or bed which you know you havent given them sack cash for.
3. Loneliness and not keen to join in with other children, its a excellent thought to get your child involved with as many out of school activities as possble, it can aleviate the problem of socializing with children of the same age and is a excellent way for your child to mix with adults too.When your child attends these fixed and is pleased with lots of acquaintances and suddenly doesnt want to join in it can evenly mean bullying is taking place wether at school or even at the activity class.
4.Your child can bully a younger member of the family in revenge against the bullies. Because the younger child is smaller and younger he/she may not be able to hold your son or daughter off if fighting occurs. Your older child will feel poweful and in control where usually the bullies strip this from him/her when bulling happens frequently to your child.
5.Bedwetting, soling of pants, a further tell tale sign that a touch is incorrect.(please note)Children can go through a bedwetting stage around 7so if it is bullying other signs have started to develop such as nightmares, dread of the bullies when you go down the street, thay may make excuses to go a further way round to avoid them.
we hope you never have to come across your child dealing with bulling the worse case was at age 11 one child out of a class of 30….26 children all against one student at school .The problems got worse until age 13 when the child got into a fight after having enough of bullying and finished up with detention plus striped of prefect duty in the last year at school.
Please note The above information is just a guide please look at all possiblities previous to rushing in at the deep end and shouting at the teachers, it could turn out that your child is the major bully after all.Take care why not stay our online store for more articles amd free advice for the under 5’s. at www.cheekychumsonline.co.uk