Is your child developing weird behavioural problems.A few tell tale signs can suggest that your child is being bullied. Here are a few to question and deal with them previous to it becomes a very terrible situation to handle.Talking to your child evenly and building up strong family relationships can mean a child can tell you they are being bullied and you can intervene previous to its too late. Not all children tell their parents though. you can later explore further just in case a further problem is the produce of a child’s scarce behaviour.
1.If your child has a silent and shy personality bullying can evenly go a miss. A child who does not feel they can approach a parent will evenly not tell you there is a problem, or if they keep coming in from playing outside telling you “mum they keep hitting me” you can sometimes be so busy and sick of them coming in every 10 minutes or so that you “say oh go on and play”, sometimes you want them to fend for them selves and stick up for themselves but bullies evenly pray on children who don’t fight back. so when bulling has become a very serious issue your child will feel they are unable to approach you with any serious problem at all.A child can become withdrawn and not want to play outside after school with their acquaintances.
2.Stealing a child may result in stealing/shop lifting and hiding things from you and then giving them away to try make new acquaintances, it evenly has the bullies then stealing from their lunch boxes, sack cash etc because they are known as a soft touch, and the child who is bullied will feel they will leave me alone if i give into them. which is evenly not the case.The other children could still not want to make acquaintances with your child and may even produce more children to bully your child.. look out for hidden toys, pens, chocolate bars, cash hidden under the pillow or bed which you know you havent given them sack cash for.
3. Loneliness and not keen to join in with other children, its a excellent thought to get your child involved with as many out of school activities as possble, it can aleviate the problem of socializing with children of the same age and is a excellent way for your child to mix with adults too.When your child attends these fixed and is pleased with lots of acquaintances and suddenly doesnt want to join in it can evenly mean bullying is taking place wether at school or even at the activity class.
4.Your child can bully a younger member of the family in revenge against the bullies. Because the younger child is smaller and younger he/she may not be able to hold your son or daughter off if fighting occurs. Your older child will feel poweful and in control where usually the bullies strip this from him/her when bulling happens frequently to your child.
5.Bedwetting, soling of pants, a further tell tale sign that a touch is incorrect.(please note)Children can go through a bedwetting stage around 7so if it is bullying other signs have started to develop such as nightmares, dread of the bullies when you go down the street, thay may make excuses to go a further way round to avoid them.
we hope you never have to come across your child dealing with bulling the worse case was at age 11 one child out of a class of 30….26 children all against one student at school .The problems got worse until age 13 when the child got into a fight after having enough of bullying and finished up with detention plus striped of prefect duty in the last year at school.
Please note The above information is just a guide please look at all possiblities previous to rushing in at the deep end and shouting at the teachers, it could turn out that your child is the major bully after all.Take care why not stay our online store for more articles amd free advice for the under 5’s. at www.cheekychumsonline.co.uk
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School Bullies! Would You Know if Your Child is Being Bullied?
Saturday, June 12th, 2010Are We Turning our Children Into Bullies?
Wednesday, June 9th, 2010Researching for an article, I spent a few weeks in the blogosphere looking for information about the leading presidential candidates. My intention was to learn the candidates’ positions on issues that affect the self-employed. What I found instead shocked me. My search made it painfully apparent that grownups in the blogosphere are no nicer than bullies on an elementary school playground.
I suppose you could look at it as pure genius – Post an article to your blog poking a small fun at individuals, groups, or ideologies that readers like to despise. Then watch the site counter and number of bigoted comments rise. It is the seemingly perfect formula for successful and profitable blogging, but it comes at a greater price.
Words do not stay words forever. They lead to action. In a significance, hateful words will ultimately become the proverbial sticks and stones that do the bone breaking. On a similar note, the Mormon chapel behind my home was vandalized a few weeks ago. Mormon buildings in various states have been vandalized and/or burned over the past month. I don’t know what investigators found as the fire catalyst of the house of worship burned in Arizona, but I believe it was fueled by a rising acceptance of Mormon bashing during this presidential campaign.
A climate of mean-spirited political bantering also encourages our children to tease and bully. Bobby Barvish of The Muslim Forum of Utah calls this “trickle down bigotry”. In a recent interview with me, Mr. Barvish agreed that current prejudices blatantly expressed during our presidential primary campaigns have worsened the atmosphere for law-abiding Muslim Americans and their children.
Don’t particularly care about bigotry toward Muslims or Mormons?
Well, what about your own kids?
Don’t reckon for one minute that we grown-ups can go around name-calling and not expect our nation’s children to do the same. The message we are sending our children is that it is okay to tease, pick on, make fun of, discriminate against, or despise a name because of their name, their religion, their gender, their race, their general beliefs, etc.
According to Washington State Lt. Gov. Barc Owen: “Bullying occurs once every seven minutes on school playgrounds…By the age 24, 60% of identified childhood bullies (are) convicted of a crime.” -http://www.ltgov.wa.gov/speeches/OregonWaSheriffsConference.html
Perhaps a no less perilous bully is now the cyber kind. Cyber bullying was brought to inhabitant attention with the suicide death of midpoint school student, Megan Meier, after being tormented on MySpace. According to polls, 90% of kids say that they have been hurt online in some way. In 2007 alone, 32% of teenagers claim to have been victims of cyberbullying (CNN.com).
If you want to see prime examples of cyber bullying, type Hillary Clinton’s name into a search engine. You’ll find sites whose sole purpose is to make fun of her. (And we wonder why kids today can be so mean…) While you are at it, check out how bloggers treat Mike Huckabee’s sons. (Let’s not descend for belittling a candidate’s religion, midpoint name, heritage, or marital issues. Let’s beat up on their kids to make sure that we have completely desecrated everything that they hold dear.)
Certain subjects should be off-limits out of common decency. Running for office doesn’t give America the right to rip to pieces everything that is sacred or vital to a candidate.
I am not implying that pointing out a candidate’s policies or behavior of which you do not agree amounts to bigotry or cruelty. I am simply saying that leaving comments in blogs or on YouTube proclaiming things like “all Mormons are bunch of #!*% idiots that deserve what they get”, “you can’t trust a candidate whose name sounds like a #&%* terrorist”, or “that woman is an hideous #&!* and needs an exorcism” is ultimately going to lead to more prison over-crowding. (And cyber journalists/commentators posting articles to incite such comments for profit and personal gain are just as terrible if not worse!)
Treat candidates online the way that you would want your children to be treated on MySpace. It is possible to intelligently discuss differences in opinion and philosophy. Doing so will teach our children how to descend problems without resorting to name calling and vulgarity.
To learn more about the things of the politics of despise stay http://workfromhomechoices.com/blog/viral-blogging-what-is-the-price-of-profiting-from-the-politics-of-bigotry-and-despise/