You can’t Tweet “goodnight” on a first date…Why how you say goodnight is even more important than how you say hello on a first date

admin — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 09:17:26 +0000

As Facebook and Twitter infiltrate our social interactions, some things remain the same. Take going out on a date. You can make your date arrangements by tweeting or texting, but some things you still need to do unplugged. That includes coming up with a goodnight routine or plan about successfully ending the big first date. And if you want a second one, how well you end the first date can play a big part.

Paul A. Falzone, CEO of The Right One and Together Dating–one of the world’s largest brick-and-mortar dating services with more than 60 offices nationwide—has paired hundreds of clients during his quarter of a century in business. So what does this love authority think about saying goodnight?

“You want to go into the date thinking things will go well. So it’s absolutely not premature to at least imagine how you would like the date to end. That said, you don’t want how you say goodnight to turn into goodbye and that does take setting some boundaries for how far things will go,” said Falzone.

For starters, Falzone recommends:

? Meet at the location of your date – eliminating the home pickup and dropoff does reduce the likelihood of an overly affectionate goodnight. That can be a good and bad thing. But if the date went well, not a dealbreaker.

? Goodnight kiss; handshake, high five? – See how the date goes and use your best instincts and judgment. There’s nothing wrong if the evening gets a little amorous, that’s the idea. But going into the date with any expectations, even a peck on the cheek, is a mistake.

? Should I ask for a second date? – The night’s gone well and you’re wondering “should I strike while the iron is hot and see if he/she wants to get together again”. Don’t. Avoid making plans as you’re saying goodnight. If it went well, do make plans to reconnect by phone, text or e-mail.

? Want to come up for a cup of coffee? – Again, use your judgment. Is coffee coffee or does it mean something else? If it’s really coffee and you’d like to continue the date and conversation, there are more than few coffee shops out there. Keep this date public. If it’s meant to be, there will be plenty of times for “coffee” at his or her place.

? Walk your date to their door or vehicle – Just a common courtesy and doesn’t mean anything more than you want them to get home safely. Don’t mistake walking them to the door to mean any more than that.

? And if it went badly – You went out on the date and nothing. That happens. Just leave it at that. It’s a date, not a breakup and there’s really no need to make any declarations that you don’t want to go out again right there. One of the beauties of the technology we have is that if you don’t want to go out with somebody again, there are ways—e-mail, texting, and voice mail—to do it without a face-to-face confrontation.

“Having a goodnight routine is really about judging how the evening went, assessing where you want things to go—or not go—and really using your best judgment. And if all those things are helping, take it slow. As said earlier, if it’s meant to be, a succinct goodnight is not a dealbreaker,” said Falzone.

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Wordpress Latest Version 2.9 Features and Release date

admin — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 13:58:25 +0000

Wordpress Latest Version 2.9 ReviewWordpress the Best Content Management System they are going to release the latest version of Wordpress 2.9 Really soon at the end of November.In this Article i will show you describe some Advanced features of Wordpress Latest Version 2.9.1: Thumbnail images on posts. (No need of any plugin)3: Wordpress developers are now raising the version of MySQL supported from 4.0 to 4.1.2 in Wordpress 2.9 (some of us are using the latest versions: D)4: Trash section (A Trash section will be added so your deleted posts and pages will now go into the trash)Cool feature that helps plugin to choose popular comments)6: Wordpress developers fully focused on the Advance Security Measures in this release.On Macs, it’s the Trash. In both cases, the feature exists to help people recover from accidental deletions. We have all had those moments where we nuked something we had no intention of nuking. In WordPress 2.9, everything is recoverable now with a new Trash feature. When you delete a post, page, category, comment, or any bit of content, it is moved to the Trash where you can decide whether to pull it back at a later date.Trash collection is done every 30 days by default, but it is possible to change this by editing your wp-config.php file. Add the following to your config file to change trash collection to every 7 days. There has been a variety of meta tables in WordPress. Meta tables, like usermeta or postmeta, are database tables that contain information about the type of data that is stored in WordPress. Now, there is a comment meta table as well.Though it is unclear how plugin authors will seek to use this table, the fact that it is available is a major deal as it essentially provides meta tables for every piece of content in WordPress now.I am sure that The Latest Version of Wordpress Will Make Wordpress Much Easier and Advance with These Features.

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